Summer 2020 – Time for Yourself

Summer fields

Summer

Summer fields

Solstice has come and gone, and now the sunlight fades a little earlier each day. The Motherwort in my garden is spent, and the Monarda’s stunning purple falls away. In the rhythms of life, of the earth, summer brings us to the hot, bright spot on the wheel of the year, where Goldenrod, Poke and Sunflowers ready their buds in the heat.

Summer corresponds to other rhythms as well:  Noon, and the full moon, when energies are high and dreams are born. This is the time of fullness, as the land brings crops and plants into readiness for a harvest to come — by us, and by birds and animals who already dine on the bounty of my juniper berries and hollyhock seeds. It is the time of high activity, creating, and exuberant life.

But what a different summer this is. There is a surreal overlay as the stress of uncertainty features in the ongoing days, and loss and the constant need for adjustment take their toll. How do we navigate the time before us? The same way humans have always navigated difficult changes in their circumstances. We will pause, and assess, and learn, and create new options. But now, in the middle of a global pandemic, on the edge of a longed-for social justice revolution, faced with mounting loss of loved ones, jobs and income, it feels as if the overwhelm may not end. In this moment, self care and compassion become the greatest gifts you can give yourself.  Finding or creating time to feel safe, loved, and at peace is a critical strategy of self care.  As you do this, aligning with Earth Rhythms and our common herbal allies are powerful gifts.

Ease

Rose in spoon

Faced with overwhelm, it’s important to first disconnect from the what’s causing it — even if just for a few minutes.   This is like pulling away from a hot pan that you have touched.  It removes the source of the damage, so the skin can cool, and heal.  The healing is deeper if you will choose to:

 

      • Put the phone away
      • Give yourself permission to set aside all the worrying thoughts just for that time, and insist that they be still.  (Tell yourself that you can come back to them, but this is your time to disengage.)
      • Give yourself completely to whatever you are doing.

Sunlight

Your body makes the critical hormone we call Vitamin D using sunlight. Without it, body repair slows down; and depression, lethargy and a sense of distress usually increase. Outside the summer is going on. What about taking some special time each day to ground, and root yourself deep into the earth? Morning is a great time, not long after you wake up. Energizing sunlight right then helps set the body’s rhythm for falling asleep at night. Just stand barefoot on the earth and see your energies going going, like roots, deeper and deeper into the earth’s core. Both the physical touch of feet on earth and the visualization are powerful.

Sun on grass, flowers

And that bright noon sun! Try sitting or walking outdoors for at least 30 minutes between 11 AM and 1 PM each day. Breathe in the sunlight, and see it invigorating every cell in your body. Watch puffy clouds if you have them, and free yourself from everything external, to connect deeply with the world around you. It’s a meditation in itself, and so nourishing!

Herb Bathing

Take an old sock that it’s okay to stain, a large muslin bag, or a square foot of cotton, and fill it with an herb for a soothing bath. Tie it off in whatever way works, and set 1-2 quarts of water in a pan to boil. When the water comes to a boil, turn it off, and add the sock or bag full of herb. Poke it down with a chopstick to help it become saturated, put a lid on, and wait 30-40 minutes. In the meantime, draw a warm bath, and light a candle or two in the bath room, if you’d like.   (Time it to be ready when your herbs are done.) When they have steeped, make sure your closure on the bag or sock is really tight, then pour the whole pan, herbs and all, into the bath water, and join them! Breathe deeply and enjoy the down time.

Herbs I love for this are Mugwort (cooling, so good if you’re hot natured, and can promote dreaming), Lavender buds or leaves (Ahhh, my favorite!), Rose buds, and Calendula. (If you have dried or fresh Calendula flowers you can just throw them loose in the tub, and watch them expand and drift, but you’ll need to skim them out with a big strainer before you pull the plug!)

Tea for One — A Ritual

This is a ritual of self care, that begins with connecting with a plant. Choose a tea for it’s aromatic, or enlivening, or soothing properties, and consider it for a moment.  What draws you to the plant that this comes from?  Boil some water in a pan or teapot, and select a lovely place to drink it where you will not be disturbed. That could be at the table, or on the porch, or on a blanket in the grass. Be inventive! Set your place with a teapot and cup; put tea  in your vessel to steep, and pour the water when it’s ready, straining if needed.

teacup steaming

Notice everything that you can about the tea: The warmth and smell of the steam, the initial color of the tea and how it changes, the smell of the herb. Enter a meditative space for 3-5 minutes while the tea steeps. Pour your tea, noticing it’s fragrance and color. Sip, and explore the taste. Is it bitter? Astringent? Tannic? Sweet? What else? Breathe deeply and let your thoughts be calm and flowing as you enjoy your tea and your sacred space.

My favorite uplifting teas for this are Black or Green tea with Clove, Orange Peel and Cardamom. (The spices are warming, so use less, or try honey instead if you are hot natured.)  My favorite relaxing brews for this are Chamomile, Linden, Hawthorn and Lavender.

Flow

When the nervous system is nourished and supple, it’s easier to flow with life. Some herbal allies have a gift for nourishing and soothing the nervous system from River flowingwithin. To make any of these herbal infusions, use 1/4 to 1/2 cup of herb* to a pint of water. Plan to let it steep for at least 4 hours, up to overnight. Several of these are really bitter (and that’s part of the medicine!), so adding honey or stevia is fine. As you drink them, be sure to tune in to their taste and energies.
*  Exception: Marshmallow. Instructions are below.

chamomile flowers1. Chamomile (Matricaria recutita)  An antispasmodic, anti-inflammatory and gentle calming herb. Also a digestive bitter, so it’s great if anxiety unsettles the stomach. Try a strong pint, divided into 3 doses 20 minutes before meals during the day for daytime calm and to sleep easier at night.

Linden Leaf & flower2. Linden (Tilia europea)  I love this herb! A lovely ally when the stomach is nervous, blood pressure goes up from anxiety, and overwhelm creeps in. It can ease grief, and relieve heart inflammation. I make a strong infusion to drink on many days, and use it as a weaker tea for my tea ritual (above) just so I can just smell it. I’m convinced this is one of the gifts of the fey to us for times of change.

Marmallow plant3.  Marshmallow (Althea officinalis)  Such a soother!  It is demulcent, anti-inflammatory, wound healing,  and more.  When we become dried out from summer heat, so does our nervous system. Drinking a demulcent tea on a regular basis can bring flow, and counter depression and sleeplessness.  This one is easiest to make:  stir a 1/2 teaspoon powdered herb into a pint of filtered water at room temperature.   Let it sit for 4-8 hours, strain, and drink all day as a beverage.  It will have a slightly thick consistency,  and you want that!  You can even leave the powder in the jar and stir it well before you drink.  Did I mention? — It’s a nutritive tonic, as well.

Oats4. Oats (Avena sativa)  This is a nervine tonic, and considered a longevity drink in the Ayurvedic tradition. Drink a pint of strong infusion a day as a beverage for as long as you want, to add a soothing flow to nerve energy. It’s B-vitamins, minerals and saponins are wonderful nourishment for the nervous system.

Side Flowered Skullcap5. Skullcap (Scutellaria lateriflora)  A supreme nervine tonic, that imparts a regenerative effect. It is notably calming, and perfect to use before doing any of the other interventions above. You can use the 1/4 cup amount long term for extended nervous tension and nervous exhaustion during the day, and benefit from easier sleep at night. Reduce to 2-3 Tbs if 1/4 cup makes you sleepy.
“Side-Flowered Skullcap” by pchgorman is licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0

This time calls to us to bring our gifts of creativity and love to the front, to heal what can be healed for ourselves, each other, and the planet.  It is the Change Time, and our gifts are needed. Our Allies are here for us, and we can be here for the world, if we give ourselves the care we need to nurture strength and resilience. May this sharing help you thrive, and may you be well.   — Joan

 

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Earth Rhythms: Reweaving the Lost Connections

winter mugIt is mid January, and the world is grey today, with a magical cold softness, held in the now-damp air. Fallen leaves lie still, hiding mysteries that wait for spring, to be revealed in warmth and rain. I have reveled for a month in the pause that starts just before winter solstice, when Earth creates a container for the energy of darkness and cold here. It is a time of reflection, deep roots, and transforming in silence. I depend on it for health in the rest of the year like I depend on sleep for health each day. It is a time to indulge with abandon in the pleasures of warm throws, quiet dark, hot teas, and soft fireside conversations that reach deep. This rhythm of darkness and cold is one of earth’s rhythms on the prairie, and in these latitudes around the world. It is known by our cells, and held in our ancestral memories as a time of regeneration and community. It is a critical rhythm in the wheel of the year, when we can feed our inner wellsprings; yet it is unknown, or unengaged with, by many, many people.

We cannot wholly be disconnected from all of earth’s rhythms, or we would wither away, bereft of the unseen information streams between people, plant, and earth. But we collectively live out of harmony with some of them, and without conscious awareness of others, as if walking with someone who was a friend once, that we no longer acknowledge is there. Our cells, nervous systems and spirits miss those flows. It is clear from the awakening calling people to herbalism, shamanism and other pathways that connect us to earth, that we long to come again into harmony with the planet that is our home, and the other beings who live here. Doing that can affect our ability to heal in profound ways. This post begins a series of explorations about the rhythms of life that coordinate many of our biological and inner responses to our world, and without which we simply cannot get well. In these I will share a profile of the rhythms, herbs and practices that I find helpful in the journey.

The Rhythm of Winter

tree in fog

Even in this suburban spot on the prairie whose seasons have warmed through at least forty years of climate change, the energy of deep winter holds sway for a little longer. Without snow, without ice, but slow and cold for a little while yet, nourishing resilience in body and spirit that will feed vitality through the activity of the year.  Now, in this last two weeks before the half-way place between Sunreturn and Equinox, there is still time to nurture the seeds of of the year’s work, before the time of quiet dark fades behind.

Deep Roots

One way to connect with the rhythm of winter is to — stop! Do nothing. Turn off the phone and feel the warmth of air on your skin and sense your heart beat. The heart is the organ of the 6th sense, long suppressed now; the seat of our clarity and intuition.  Accessing this space in yourself often can help you override messages from the outer world, and clarify what you truly need and want — the realm of your heart’s longings. This simple exercise brings heart, nervous system and spirit together:

Heart Connection

Let go of your thoughts, and breathe in and out through your heart while cultivating a feeling of love for someone in your life. It can be a person, a pet, or the beings around you.
♦   See your inner Divine as a spark within.
♦   Imagine a bridge of light from that spark to your heart .
♦   Radiate love to yourself and the world for a minute, then sit in stillness.

Your own greatest wisdom emerges from silence.

Nourish Deeply

As the cold days roll on, melancholy can set in, especially if the days remain grey for long.  That’s the time for nourishment with winter roots and broths.  The energy of roots flows downward and is oh, so grounding. As they anchor the living plant, so they help to anchor us. Root energy supports inner work and the pensive inner reflections that are often part of winter. They are filled with micronutrients, antioxidants and minerals.

Vegetable broths that include a wide variety of vegetables along with mushrooms and seaweed, or bone broths made from clean, organic bones along with local greens and herbs are both nutrient dense foods that can form a base for soups in winter. Don’t you love the rich, taste of a soup on a cold day?

Here is a simple recipe that uses both
broth and roots for a warming, semi-sweet soup:

1 each small:   golden beet,  parsnip,  burdock root.
1/2 cup onion, diced
1-2 Tbsp olive oil
3 cups vegetable stock
— or —
1 cup bone broth plus 2 cups chicken stock
A sprinkling of thyme, rosemary, sage, coriander and marjoram.
Sea salt and pepper to taste. 

1-2 Tbs chia seed
dash of nutmeg

Chop and lightly saute all the roots  in 1-2 Tbs olive oil. Add the broth / stock, salt and pepper.   Simmer until roots are softer but not yet tender.  Add the chia seed and herbs.

Cook until roots are tender and the soup has some body. Whole cream makes a nice addition to this in the bowl, if dairy is an option.

May you enjoy, and may the lingering days of winter offer you
time for wonder, and for regeneration.

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Many Medicines

The Stories We Tell Ourselves

The words we choose as we think about things matter. Our thoughts, and how we frame them, both reflect, and help us define our belief systems. When we let someone else create the relevant stories in our lives, we cede our power over to them. Now at a time when we have done that en masse in the area of our health, we are as a nation, the sickest we have ever been, and more so than any other industrialized nation, in spite of spending more per capita on health care than any of them. The cultural story that has been most co-opted in modern times is the story of Medicine — things that connect us to Life, and heal us deeply.

Many Medicines

Have you ever danced with abandon on a carpet of grass, while birds sang and clouds scudded by in a blazing blue sky? Did you feel the flowing medicine of being connected to all the life around you? Have you ever opted to enjoy downtime with a cup of tea, instead of taking drugs for a tickly throat, and felt the medicine of tea, and warmth and quiet pour through you? Two days ago in an organic food store, a conversation that began with smiles between two strangers, ended with a hug as we acknowledged the Spirit Medicine that had just connected us, through a conversation. Kindness between two people is incredible medicine.

Herbalist Susan Weed talks to us of “Seven Medicines” that speak to diverse wellsprings of healing. (1)   My own list is similar, and the wells of what heals us are deep: Story Medicine, Spirit Medicine, Earth Medicine, Plant Medicine, Energy Medicine, and more. Your list may vary depending on your background and beliefs, but what is important is that we have a list, and that we acknowledge that there are many kinds of medicines that we can engage in for healing. Any of them can be potent enough to shift the course of illness.

How did it become just about the drugs?

Dollar sign made of pillsMedicine was not always a commodity. Before the creation, funding and monetization of the AMA and our current medical system in the USA, non-drug medicines were primary. But in making health care a commodity instead of treating it as a fundamental human right in our country, the role of the “other” medicines was deliberately diminished, cultivating a culture of dependency, where patients were told they should rely exclusively on doctors and drugs for their physical well being — and that that was the only well being that mattered!

The Story Medicine of early “doctor shows” and endless drug commercials worked, for awhile. Now, what passes for health care in our country revolves around symptom control at best; and at worst, is a system for fixing parts piecemeal, and generating repeat business. It is a revolving door of symptom relief using drugs or surgeries that cause further damage, where the patient pays dearly each time. Compassionate and skilled doctors are at the mercy of an infrastructure bent on maximizing profit, and uncaring or greedy doctors are allowed to thrive in our “health care” system.

The question surfaces:  “Would we need so much palliative care if we ate and lived in alignment with foods and cycles that our bodies already know?”

Drug-and-Machine medicine is sometimes lifesaving — but there is always a price to pay, in one domain or another. This can be fiscal, in debt that can be devastating and life changing for an entire family, or in organ failure caused over time by a drug that eases a challenging symptom at the expense of damaging an organ. Or it can be from collateral damage caused by a necessary intervention, such as when my appendix burst. Then, surgery and very strong antibiotics probably saved my life. The price? $10, 000; and I had to rebuild my microbiome, that precious colony of extraordinarily diverse organisms that live in our intestines and are collectively part of our digestive, endocrine and immune systems.

Sacred Medicines — Nurturing Health

True medicines help us deepen our connection to our bodies,
and to the forces that maintain its life.

Rest and herbs were once prescribed first, and the role of simple foods and clean water were paramount in nurturing health. People cultivated time apart to be in silence with their own thoughts. The medicine of aligning to the earth, sun and moon in their cycles were so important that personal and cultural life revolved around them. Attuning to Spirit played a role, and yes, there were miracles sometimes, from all of these.

The way of Earth Medicine is not just about taking this herb for that symptom. The deeper work is in aligning with the foods and plants our bodies evolved with, to nurture health, and restore health when it is lost. Symptoms are our bodies way of talking to us, and we can allow them, and focus instead on what’s causing the symptom. When we heal the root cause, the symptoms frequently diminish, or cease on their own.

Story Medicine can help us align with our inner knowing about our body’s capacity to heal. Food and Herbal Medicines nourish deeply, giving the body what it needs to heal itself and maintain health. Spirit Medicine reminds us that we are greater that the physical self that we see, and are a part of all life. And what of Nature Medicine? How are we not nature? Sitting or walking in nature reunites us with the environment that we came from, and that our cells remember. There we are connected again with signals from all the life around us that energize our bodies and spirits.  This is so reviving that it is incorporated into the healing systems of Japan and other countries.

Choosing Your Medicine

We do not need permission from anyone to choose the medicines we need. What Story Medicine do you tell yourself about your body and it’s ability to heal?  Your cells sing a story of vitality and regeneration — Listen!  Can you hear? What are your other best medicines? Are you connected to the earth through foods and herbs your body loves? Do you sleep enough? (It is one of the most profound medicines, reducing the risk of heart conditions, gut permeability and so many other illnesses!)  When is your sacred time – your time apart for reflection and spirit?  What comforts you?  How do you connect with the heart flows of the people in your life?  All of these bring potent healing.

As you heal with food, herbs, sleep, energy, inner work, or just time aside for the pampering comfort of a warm candlelight bath, you will surely find yourself needing drug medicine less… and less…

Welcome friend, as you return to the First Medicines.
Remembering them is a little like coming home. 

 

1.  http://www.susunweed.com/herbal_ezine/January05/healingwise.htm